Every time Bro4 comes over, he says, "You should get
rid of the weeds in your driveway.
They'll crack the cement."
My typical response is some variation of "I'll get to
it". Lately, I've told him about
my friend's eco-friendly method of killing weeds with bleach, which prompts Bro
to say, "Just use Round Up".
This conversation is as predictable as the sun rising in the morning and
setting every evening. Even if he
doesn't say it out loud, I know he's thinking about telling me to get rid of
the weeds until I cave to the inevitable and get rid of them.
If you're interested in the bleach method, saturate the
leaves instead of the base of the plant.
Use a sprayer with only plastic parts (no metal). Give it a day or two and the plants will
die. The bleach dissipates, so it's
better for the environment, but it's better if you don't let your pets walk on
it the first day. I'd also recommend
that you do it before the plants get too big because I still ended up scraping
the dying plants with my dedicated driveway shovel, which is actually a coal
shovel, but who has coal these days? I
even went the extra step and swept the drive (with the dedicated driveway
broom) to get rid of the bzillions of maple helicopters.
My driveway looks lovely.
Well, it did look lovely before the winds and rain came and brought down
several more bzillions of maple helicopters down. But in that golden moment when my driveway looked suburban
perfect, I noticed an ant colony swarming on my perfect cement.
Ants are pretty amazing.
They display excellent teamwork.
I resisted the urge to stomp on them and let them move house in
peace. I hope they remember my peaceful
nature next time one of them wants to bite me when I'm weeding the garden. Maybe they're trying to get back at me for
burning their ancestors with a magnifying glass when I was a child? Even then, I wasn't thrilled with murder for
entertainment. I took to burning paper
and leaves instead.
I watched the swarming ants for a little bit because I found
it interesting that they were passing up eggs and handing them off to each
other. The eggs (or larva?) were bigger
than the ants carrying them. Then one
of the ants bit me, and I decided there were better things to do than watch
ants.
I don't know if it's true though? Perhaps watching ants is the absolute best use of my time?
Thoughts, creativity, inspiration, realizations happen in
unexpected moments of quiet time, and we don't get those moments if we never
slow down enough to witness our own lives because we're too busy watching tv,
playing video games, or doing stuff we're "supposed to" do. Should all of our discoveries be in
childhood when we have endless time to watch ants?
I would comment, honest, but I feel a sudden urge to go out and watch ants. Many thanks for the reminder to just be, and put the mad pressure of responsibilities and deadlines aside for even a little while.
ReplyDeleteAnything I can do to help!
ReplyDeletelots can be learned from watching ants! Thanks for sharing! Have a wonderful weekend!
ReplyDeleteThanks Kelley. I hope you have a wonderful weekend too!
ReplyDeleteAnts display impressive teamwork - so much they get movies made about them! Nice choice for the topic.
ReplyDeleteI laughed at your "murder as entertainment" phrase. Aren't we all guilty of death by magnifying lens?
Maybe you're right, we're all murderers? I didn't even think of the movie. I probably coulda done something with that. Oops!
DeleteI bet you were so proud of your drive for those few moments it stayed clear and I bet your bro never witnessed your gleaming drive! Ants are amazing, they are just oblivious to us and really do live in their own world don't they. Enjoy the weekend xxx
ReplyDeleteI was proud for maybe a whole hour. I hope you had a good weekend too.
DeleteYou would love watching leaf cutter ants do their thing in Central America. I used to pour boiling water on weeds that would grow up through cracks in our old cement patio at the farm. It works. Although, it probably takes time.
ReplyDeleteThanks for another way to kill weeds. I certainly have enough in other places to try different methods :)
ReplyDeleteYou are so right. It's when we let ourselves slow down and take time to notice - ants for example - that creative really strikes. For me keeping a driveway "perfect" seems so futile, but that's maybe only because I don't have one. :-)
ReplyDeleteI only attain a "perfect" driveway for about an hour a year :) But doing something simple like sweeping is a meditation of sorts, like watching the ants.
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