I was hiking around to endless historical monuments on a
hot, sunny day with a friend when I said, "I need to stop for a pop" as
we walked by a convenience store. My
friend burst into merry laughter. My
face rearranged itself into absolute befuddlement. I didn't see anything funny in my declaration. I was hot and thirsty. My friend didn't have the faintest idea what
I was talking about. "A Pepsi,
Coke, something like that", I clarified, shaking my head at the
obvious. "Oh! A soda!" In my mind, a soda is something from the 1950's when teenyboppers
went to the soda shop for a malt, but okay.
I realize more of you out there say soda than pop, but you have to admit
pop is a better word when you open the bottle.
Someone else recently reminisced with me about going to her
grandparents and getting pop from the basement. "Me too!" Happy
grandparent stories flowed back and forth and I vividly tasted Vernor's ginger
ale even though I haven't tasted it in years.
It's amazing how these things stay with us, and how much little things
matter down the road when it didn't seem to make that much difference at the
time. We just had practical
grandparents who put soda pop in the basement because the basement was cool and brought it upstairs when the grandkids were there because they loved us. It's these little moments that made us feel special and secure.
The other day I contemplated what to have for supper. I seem to have gotten very vegetarian during
the shutdown and I have to say I'm sick and tired of vegetables. I flashed back to dinner at Grandma's and
wished so strongly for one of her basic meals of ham, mashed potatoes, and
green beans. I wanted it so badly I
could smell the ham and hear her putting a spoon down on her stainless steel kitchen
counter. I thought of Grandpa and his perennial
assortment of Chex cereal and ever-present vanilla ice milk. Tinkling dishes, cheerful laughter, and ice
tea. Vernor's pop, full of sugar and
bubbles, in the middle of the day, for no real reason other than my
grandparents knew I liked it.
I saw a post where a 10-year-old girl created a door screen
out of a shower curtain and plastic bags so she could hug her grandma during
the shutdown. Yay for the kid! But gee, it sucks to be separated from your
grandma! Maybe all this separation will
prove to teach more of us to appreciate people while we have them?
Happy memories keep us warm inside when faced with too many
vegetables, but it isn't all about looking back. It's about thinking about your priorities and making decisions about
what you want now and in the future. Our
thoughts create possibilities.
Thinking about drinking a bubbly pop on a hot summer day may
not seem important at all. Remembering
merry laughter between friends is important.
It isn't about things, it's about people. I'm really hoping that everyone appreciates their people even
more when they can hug each other again.
This art is just a TV doodle around the time I was
salivating over Grandma's ham :)
I call that Pepsi Coke a soda..I hardly ever drink a soda, but sometimes, you just need a little bubbly to make ourselves feel good.
ReplyDeleteI like bubbly drinks too but I try not to drink them that often because of the sugar.
DeleteSweet (literally) post, Linda. Classic Coke reminds me SO much of my Grandma. We would split a can of it in the afternoons when I stayed with her. How rough it would've been to not be able to hug grandparents when we were kids? I love that hug curtain!
ReplyDeleteI like your bubbles from "pop".
Thanks. If you ever need to feel lucky you can think of your grandma and Coke :)
DeleteI confused when people use word "soda" about 15 years ago when I just arrived in America.... funny....hehehe...lol.
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing a nice story about sweet memory with grandparents....
Have a great day
I hope you're having a great day too!
DeleteGood memories are always important. They can keep us alive, particularly in these days when we are so restricted. In particular smell and taste are good triggers to bring us right back memory lane. About soda or pop: Using both would be an option...
ReplyDeleteI've since discovered "pop" is said through the Great Lakes region to the northern middle states of the US. You're so right about smell and taste as triggers. Wishing you happy memories!
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