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Saturday, October 24, 2015

"Adventure"

I need a new adventure.  I'm not sure what this is going to be yet, but it has to be more exciting than making applesauce or watching Pete and Dave fixing my shed this week.

Last night I dreamt about "adventure" and remembered walking in a South Carolina plantation garden.  I am delicate in the sun, so I had on a big, floppy hat and a long, loose skirt while everyone else was dressed in Ugly American summer wear.  That's too-tight tank tops with lewd slogans and too-tight shorts.

There was a guy in a holey shirt that had faded a light salmon.  I suppose the shirt started out red?  I couldn't look away from the curly blonde fur on his shoulders while he couldn't bother to check his unruly kids.  His wife's chest oozed around all the edges.  I must've looked like another flower in the garden by comparison.

A British man pulled up in a super cute red convertible.  He was dressed impeccably, as he had a business meeting in the Big House.  Nothing more than light conversation happened with him, but I guess I've always wondered "what if".  He was clearly interested, and I was interested too, but I regretfully watched him walk away.  I was probably being responsible about something.  Sometimes I hate that about myself.

We all face moments of opportunities gained or lost.  Often those moments are as ephemeral as catching a falling leaf in the breeze.  I think most of the time we don't recognize the chance or the choice, but sometimes we do.  Not taking that chance in the moment is the choice of a different future.  Too often, the reason we don't take a risk is because of misguided inhibitions and fear.

I listened to a radio program, Reclaiming Conversation: ThePower of Talk in the Digital Age.  Psychologist author, Sherry Turkle, has researched what's happening with people who are glued to their devices.  People text instead of talking face to face, and have lost the ability to empathize.  They have so many fears, they avoid personal interactions.  How many opportunities are lost because they're hiding behind their phones?

I'm  upset that people don't know how to sit down and have a cup of tea with a friend for an afternoon or how to actually get together meaningfully in a romantic relationship.  I share lunch with the ladies in my office every day, and we talk about stuff.  We like each other, suffer each other's quirks, and support each other.  This stuff matters, and people need to put down their phones and notice that it matters.

I'm glad I drove to SC to walk in a plantation garden.  I regret not asking that man to join me for lunch.  I'm glad I'm a responsible worker.  I regret giving too much of my life to jobs.  All of these little choices end up being the sum of our lives.

I'm trying to think of ideas for my next adventure -- to go somewhere, do something new, expand my life in some way.  Maybe I'll actually fill out the paperwork for a passport?  Take a class or say "hi" to the next guy who looks at me?  Do you have any suggestions?

I'm usually terrible at remembering to show works in progress (WIP).  I thought I'd try to remember to show you this piece as I go along.  This is on a 3' x 12" canvas that my buddy Korki gave me.  Thanks!

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  1. Linda, your painting is "going somewhere and doing something new," as this series of WIP pics clearly illustrates!

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    1. I have to admit I thought that would sound lame if I said it :)

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  2. Beautiful raptor in the works. New adventures are the best. I hope you find one soon...

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    1. Maybe not as exciting as your adventures Sharon, but something!

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  3. Truly gorgeous painting, Linda...you are a girl of many creative talents. New adventures, hmm. I've been longing for a big life change for some time now, but my 'life' is not budging from its current very stuck place. Maybe Life is telling me that the 'change' needs to be how I look at things, respond to things, people and situations...? Too hard, my mind says...let's just move somewhere different!

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    1. Aw thanks Susan! Sometimes I can completely relate to want to start some place new. I suspect we get more growth points if we stick it out, but you've got my sympathies. Bubble bath and a glass of wine?

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  4. Beautiful raptor!
    As far as adventure suggestions, I say "all of the above"

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    1. Thanks! I wasn't thinking of a class until I wrote it as an option. That's starting to feel appealing -- but then so does travels :)

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  5. Hopefully you'll find that adventure you are looking for! My slogan of late has been "Be Brave". Finally I'm doing some of the things I used to be afraid to do! Once I realized I could now order from the 55+ discount menu, I figured I'd better get with it!

    Lovely hawk painting!!

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  6. I like your slogan Jane. I'll work on making one up for myself. I think I've been operating on "Do what I want to do" instead of whatever other people try to get me to do or what I think they'd want me to do. Getting older has it's advantages :)

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  7. If your adventure takes you to Ireland, let me know. We will have tea and a talk at a nice lunch room. We will NOT look at our phones.

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