I cleaned a closet this week, making 3 piles: trash,
recycle, homeless. I thought of the
homeless in Cleveland's winter and found a couple pairs of mittens to add to
the pile. They're really nice mittens,
and I hesitated. How many mittens do I
need? Don't these people need them
more? Into the pile. I recently bagged up old towels and blankets
for them too. They weren't great, but
homeless people need these things.
I'm not Mother Theresa.
It's super easy to get my stuff to the homeless because all I have to do
is take it to work. The ease of it just
makes me feel guilty and lazy. I doubt
I'd think about homeless people if Deacon Joe didn't make his rounds to
them. He recently told me that the
battered women's shelter in Cleveland turns away 60 women a day. "A DAY!" I can't get this out of my mind.
I've tried a number of times to write something motivational
about this subject. Let's do
something! Let's make politicians
accountable! The problem with what I
keep writing is that I keep sinking into dark thoughts of women and children
I've known that didn't make it through the violence intact, and in some cases
alive. It's hard to be optimistic under
the burden of these memories.
I saw a boy on tv who has a remarkable memory. He can tell you all about every day of his
life. He admitted that there's a down
side to that kind of memory. He
remembers all the good he's experienced, but also all the bad. My memory isn't as detailed to the day like
his, but I can relate to the ups and downs of remembering. Sometimes it takes a lot of force of will to
push myself to think of something else.
Then I'm torn.
Should I talk about sitting on a porch in the Pennsylvania mountains,
sheltered from a torrential rain storm while I stayed warm and dry, laughing
with friends? I can pull up other happy
memories that would let us all go about our day with pleasant thoughts. Or, should I be single-minded like Deacon
Joe? He never passes an opportunity to
make others think about homeless people.
I can't help 60 battered women a day, but together we can
make a difference. What would it take
for you to help them?
Google "battered women's shelter" or
"domestic violence center" and you'll find places that need your
help. Give them stuff, money, or time. Here are some links for places near
Cleveland...

