English medics used to give gut-shot soldiers tea when they
were wounded. It seems like a
comforting thing to do, but it often killed the wounded soldiers. Somehow, death by tea seems like a good way
to go? Probably not, but it does
highlight the importance of tea. After
all, Americans started a revolution by throwing tea in Boston Harbor.
I did a blog search to see if I'd posted this art for
1800flowers before (not) and discovered I've mentioned tea a lot, most often as
an aspect of companionship and/or contemplation. Dad and I drank tea as we did our many projects. My family drank gallons of it when we
visited our grandparents. Hasn't
everyone sat on the front porch with iced tea in a Currier and Ives glass?
I've designed a lot of tins, but this is the only one I keep
in my kitchen, appropriately stocked full of tea. I got sidetracked while in the kitchen while taking the tin pic
and took some pics of Grandma's every day china. This set was made at Hall China where my Great Grandpa Winters
worked.
I love this set of dishes, especially all the hidden
roses. I don't use them very often
though because they're rimmed with gold.
That means no microwave or dishwasher.
I have a set of plain white Hall dishes for every day. Somehow, I think we've lost something
important with all our modern conveniences.
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Grandpa's bowls for Chex and currants,
or mounded with ice cream |
I survived my experience with the justice system this week, though testifying in court was stressful even though everyone was very nice. Some jurists smiled encouragingly at me when I was on the stand. I suppose my nerves were pretty obvious. I didn't get cross-examined, so that was good.
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| Large serving dish has roses inside too |
I couldn't sleep the night after testifying. I kept going over what I said, what I
should've said better, round and around and around in my mind. I was just a character witness for my friend
who died and her surviving husband (who is waiting for the outcome at the courthouse
as I'm typing this). Telling myself to
stop obsessing didn't work, and neither did telling myself that I'd done my
best and that was good enough.
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Consomme bowl -- not that I ever have consomme, but
how cool is it to have bowls specifically for that? |
The lawyer made me identify Toby in a photo he put up on a
big screen. She was life-size, smiling,
and happy. Once in a while I ignored
everyone in the courtroom and just looked at her. She wouldn't be judging my performance. She'd be full of support and give me a hug. Thinking of her warmth and friendship so apparent in the photo, I
finally drifted asleep.
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| Multiple gravy boats, plus creamer, sugar, and a whole lot of other unnecessary pieces |
Grandma's dishes are just something on the top shelf of the
hardest to reach cupboard in the kitchen -- but when I'm particularly blue or
sick, I get out a teacup and saucer and think of her love and laughter while
sipping a cup of tea. I bet that's the
kind of thing the wounded British soldiers thought too while they were dying because it's not about the china, or the tea, or what exact words were spoken. It's the feelings we carry with us of the
people who may not be with us physically anymore, but who have written on our
hearts and made us who we are.
Happy Valentine's Day! Let's celebrate love in all its forms :)
